Theme: Usually a private party is held in the home of an individual and the theme is largely based on those invited.

A theme can be religious, traditional or individual choice and even a mix. There are several questions to be asked because usually a private Christmas will either serve or not serve alcohol.

Food: A formal Christmas party in this case usually does serve up traditional dinner inline with the observance such as ham, turkey, green bean casserole, sweet potatoes, stuffing/dressing, gravy and bread rolls with either a choice of a holiday cake such as carrot cake, fruit cake or a pies like chocolate silk, pumpkin or spice.

Informal parties for adults can consist of simple appetizers like party sausages, deli meats and cheeses or a veggie tray while a child’s party can consist of decorated cupcakes, veggies with faces or just pizza.

Décor: Depending on the climate, these parties can be held indoor or outdoors using some different creative elements make these a plus.

Adult’s formal should be elegant with fabric tablecloths in rich seasonal colors like gold, red, or green with complimenting table settings and accessories.

The sky is the limit with centerpieces derived of candles, natural elements or water features that glow. Informal private parties usually consist of lights strung creatively with little decoration.

A children’s party in the home may be more whimsical with one of the highlights of the party to be the making of table toppers to be taken home after the party. Styrofoam balls, buttons, glue and markers provide children the tools to make their very own Frosty the snowman!

This article first appeared in Celebrating Christmas PDF Magazine 2005